I was out training a couple of guys last night, and then I had an insight. Not really an insight, but I realized why the majority of the guys who go out gaming never get anywhere with the women that they’re dealing with. What is it? You guys are spending too much time in one “stage”, for lack of a better word. You aren’t constantly escalating like you should be.

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It’s almost as if when you approach girls, you stand still, and don’t move forward with the seduction. You just keep trying to build attraction and don’t move forward with any compliance tests. To give you an idea of how an interaction should run, in less than two minutes, I approached a girl, made her lean into me, made her guess my name, made her stand up out of her chair, and moved her and her friend over to my friends.

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In the above interaction, you can see that I’m moving forward and getting more and more compliance out of the girl, never taking a step back. What I see almost every guy gaming girls do, is they’ll approach, and just talk, talk, talk, until eventually, the girl loses interest. This is the wrong way to be gaming. You need to be gaming with purpose; always marching forward.

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When you approach women, you need to approach them as if you are an army, the ocean is to your back, your ships are burning, the tide is rising, you have another army determined to drive you into the ocean, and your only possible chance of survival is to advance and press forward, or face certain death by being driven back into the ocean. This sounds like a minor thing, but this is probably the biggest factor as to why men aren’t succeeding with closing women.

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When I game, I game with a sense of urgency, always moving forward, punishing her with an indicator of disinterest when she tries to drive me into the ocean, and moving forward as if my only option is to succeed. I almost never let myself stagnate in my interactions with women. Everything that comes out of my mouth is done with the intention of advancing the interaction.

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To wrap this post up, you only need to run ONE opener, and from there you need to start running compliance tests, and punish her each time she doesn’t comply. And with each compliance test that she completes, you need to be trying to get her to jump through an even bigger hoop. Take risks, press forward, hold your ground when she presses you back, press forward again, and if she doesn’t press you back again, press forward even harder than you did the last time.

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Never just stand there without escalating. You must ALWAYS BE ESCALATING in your interactions with women, even if it‘s only a small step forward. If you aren’t escalating, then that means you are losing ground, and ultimately, will be driven back into the ocean.

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